For illustration purposes, some marriages are just like a contract that binds oneself to another person for many years, those that are lucky or deemed unlucky. As many would say that during courtships, you get roses, after 1st child, you get a kiss and after 5 years, you are omitted from any activities and so forth. Is that true? Well, for some that do not continually and dedicatedly find new thrills to spark new life will for sure end up in monogamous relationship but with a valid binding contract. Is that a life that you want or there are something that both has by the name of "responsibility" to fill up those monotonous gaps that both are assigned to put back colors of life that once use to be? Or simply chooses to complain and complain or cheating each others to fullfil the missing jigsaw of the lust with someone else and live with a hidden sin.
Human are a greedy creature by creation, they possessed it and feel bored with it and chucking that aside but still have no plans to donate it out neither dumping it. They just love to keep and cherish the sense of belonging but tagging it value-less. We often find new thrills that comes along in life and tends to forget the roots or a temporary insanity strikes that one may lose control over it and commit crimes or adultery. The good feeling that propels from that new discovery are often an over burst of new found energy and feel good endorphins factor. People needs excitement and new explore to kill boredom and for the best gastronomical array of food available on earth also cannot savored the satisfaction of a human being, so what is else is?
This concludes that we need to find our own colors to create rainbows and creating it again and again under your wish fulfilling lifestyle to achieve the best in life for you and whomever that you are sharing with or planning to share. It is entirely up to individuals to accept the boredom or instead creating new experience or new energy that suffice to sparks and spills colors to life.
So would you like to have a boring life or putting effort to create a palette of colors to your life? It is your choice not mine. Life as pitcher plants that has one boring function to trap invited insects has no colors to cherish but you do, why waste time?
