Stupidity vs Intelligence

Sometimes I wonder why some people just cannot carry instructions or even have some clue to manage themselves. All they do is sulks and blame that they are unfairly judged or another day of their bad luck strikes by their bosses' mood swings.

It is very normal and is part of the lifetime acquisition and effort to make oneself lifted from that category of what we called "stupid" , nobody is born genius or intelligent but it is through a very scheduler process of sharpening the speech, general knowledge, articulation, experience and etc... before one reaches the level of a more meaningful intellectual level.

However, I must not deny that there are certain type of "people" that are so well trained of the "thick skin therapy" that could suffer and live-on with any sarcasm and any failures endured without any remorse guilt and still continues with that attitude unchanged. They are just simply a "pain" to many others and with their non-remediative action in plan or a modification of attitude in their priority list at all. All they know is that they would find any form of excuses to blame or sulking for what they have failed to accomplish or at worst for what they have not done. I am not sure why these people would opt for blaming instead of them positively learn up the trades or boosting the initiative of having the skills acquired in no time so that they are competent once and for the rest of their lifetime career. If they are not doing so, isn't that a short abbreviations for us to categorise them in one phrase, "stupid" where in actual fact that they have many options to be out from that categorisation, isn't that a clear case for a self inflicted -faulting issue of him or her, a truly diagnosis of a brain disease that are associated with the grain of ingredients of laziness, obstinate, clueless, prioritisation failure, acting dumb, and may other etc.

The cure to these people lies within themselves and if they choose the same path again and again, they will just end up the same destination and goes no where. So work it up as simple as it is, don't ever self pity neither be pitied by others.

Dissastifaction

Dissatisfaction are commonsly associated with anger, unjust, unruly emotions, frustration and many more adverse reflex of the complexity of a human being.

What biological reflex or chemistry that perturbed oneself from displaying such gruelsome attitude and unsatisfied hunger? Well, I don't know, perhaps it has a lot to do with the person's EQ - Emotion Quality Control, some will somehow managed it well and some just blast it out that shows all their innards in one go. Which one are you?

I believe that sometimes, logicality and rationale thinking will helps oneself making the u-turn from reaching the optimum of a dissatisfied behavioural actions. Just take a deep breathe and think of the positive side of the adverse situation, or if you can't, just imagine that it is a challenge posed for evaluating your ability and prowess in having it solved. Don't ever start to look for a scapegoat or an excuse to get the blame or shoving it to someone else, by thinking that it will alleviates the problems. In fact you will harbour more negative vibes and making yourself the worst person on earth by lying to your very ownself with no betterment to your dissastifactory neither an antidote to your grievances.

Get positive vibes by meditation and throwing out nothing but good words of wisdom, generously sharing with others and it definitely makes you a happier person and you will find the sun shining to its highest greenwich, just on you.