I am always puzzled whether there is a life after death?And whether the dead person ever realize on what is ongoing during his or her funeral ceremony. Does he or she even knows what is ongoing or presence in the first place. Is that a party to celebrate for the deceased or for the living people that hosting the funeral? Still pretty much confused.
Many have put up grievances and concern that are not seen during the days of his lively days, so is that a dramatize show for the attendees ? Why do these people put up a great showtime for everyone else to witness? I really wonder what motives are they up to and on what purpose was that for.
Importantly, I was brought up by a family that has high moral values and trustworthy to the point of straightforward and no nonsense behind the scene. I treasured the beliefs I adopted and ONLY believes in giving the BEST that I could when the person is still with us and for sure NOT after they have departed. To me that is just a show-off that will never rekindles the loves that never existed or contributed, no men ever chase its own shadows for that it's so impossible to reverse the time that has passed.
Some people only visited and spoken to each other by the count of the fingers in a year and upon deceased, all notes of concern and filial rituals follows through a series of relations that has an obvious reason, telling people that Hey ! I am so close to you and I am now helping you thought you are DEAD ! Hilarious and please don't laugh, it is for real the world is worth and people of this kind is exist, just in front of my eyes, I seen a few of those in the slums.
Saddens by this sort of people and I choose to believe in myself and still be myself and cherish the best of the memories I had and choose to disregard those "people" until those learn to be truthful to themselves and start living out from their mask. I see no reasons for a person to fake our concerns and the reality is, have you serve and treated the person with dignity and respect before, or ONLY during the funeral ? As long as the deceased knows and has accepted your tender loving when he or she was alive, I think that are the consoling effort that one only needed to carry on with a wonderful life, which is so mortal.
Well, I hope you have the answers to answer to yourself. For sure I have and continue to have, for I live with high dignity, truthful, compassionate and loving as I am always in nature and shall never in any circumstance having to fake for one.
